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Motherhood Update: Lark at 6 months

August 16, 2017

Sleeping: Lark is still sharing a room with Prim and is sleeping really well for the most part. She’s generally only up once at night, around 5 or 6am, which I’m hopeful means she’ll be sleeping through the night within the next month or two, since that feeding is so close to when she wakes up for the day at 7am. And in case you’re wondering about how the room sharing works with these girls being so young — they do generally just sleep through each other’s noises (even crazy crying!) Prim will sleep through just about anything and Lark sleeps through Prim’s antics probably 50% of the time. I’m sure that as she gets older and better at getting herself back to sleep, she will sleep through a lot more.

How we’re adjusting: We just got back from Madrid, and Lark, ever the easy-going child that she is, did wonderfully. She would nap on the go all day and then go to bed in a new environment with hardly a whimper. KC and I at multiple points during the vacation would turn to each other and be like, “Who is this baby??” because she is sooo chill, you guys, it’s nuts. 

Lifesavers: I know I’m a broken record talking about my Solly wrap on here, but seriously, it is maybe the best baby purchase ever, especially for traveling. Anytime Lark would get a little fussy I would pop her into the wrap (after feeding her, obviously) and she would just conk out or hang out quietly. It was also amazing because it was so sunny and hot in Madrid and Lark is still too little for sunscreen, so I would pull the front of the wrap down to cover her legs and throw her hat on and she would be completely covered.

Latest trick: Lark is getting really close to scooting/crawling now. I watch her on the floor on her belly as she hitches her leg up trying to wiggle closer to a toy and I know it’s just a matter of time before this girl will be all over the place!

Sweetest things: Lark is obsessed with Prim (and vice versa). It’s an all-day lovefest between these sisters, my heart can hardly take it.

Favorite thing about this age: Lark makes these hilarious screeching pterodactyl noises when she’s just happily hanging out. I love listening to her little voice, especially because Prim is so crazy that I sometimes forget that Lark is a chatty little extrovert too.

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Motherhood Update: Lark at 5 months

July 16, 2017

Sleeping: Lark is now sharing a room with Prim and has been sleeping really well. She’s up once or twice at night to nurse and naps like a freaking champion. She is regularly woken up by Prim in the evening when she goes to bed (let me tell you, it is HARD for a 2 year old to do anything quietly) and 90% of the time Lark can get herself back to sleep. As much as I would like Prim and Lark to go to bed at the same time, it’s proving not to be feasible right now as Prim goes to bed at 7:30pm but Lark can’t seem to make it past 7pm. Oh well. We’re still in the adjustment phase of room-sharing, so I am trying to remember that things will settle eventually and we will get to a point where it will be a little bit easier.

How we’re adjusting: You may already know that we just got back from a week in Barcelona, and I have to say that I am super impressed by how well the kids did. The flights were successful (no meltdowns!) and both Prim and Lark adjusted to their new surroundings seamlessly. We played fast and loose with their schedules while we were away and they handled it like a couple of pros. I’ll try to write up a post about our trip and what worked for us travel-wise soon!

Lifesavers: Lark was gifted this little stuffed lamb lovey (I guess the Dutch word translates to “cuddle cloth” which is, um, ADORABLE) before she was born. When I started sleep training, I started giving it to her when she went to bed so she would have something familiar nearby when she woke up (since she refused to take a pacifier). She is obsessed with her “lamby” now, and nuzzles it when she wakes up and is trying to get herself back to sleep.

Latest trick: Lark is continuing to wiggle her way across the floor and is actively grabbing every toy in sight. She has some amazing stamina when it comes to tummy time — she can hold her head up forever without having to take a break.

Sweetest things: Lark now reaches out to grab my face when I come close to talk to her or kiss her. She no doubt gets it from her older sister (who I have to admit, gets it from me!)

Favorite thing about this age: Lark is so interested in everything that’s going on around her. She watches Prim intently, and it’s so sweet to see her readily recognizing people now (like when KC comes home and she breaks out into a big grin). The best thing is coming to get her up from her crib in the morning or after a nap — she gets the biggest smile on her face and starts cooing wildly like she’s filling me in on all the things she’s planning on doing during the day.

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Motherhood Update: Lark at 4 months

June 16, 2017

Wiggling her way off the blanket already (and always looking to see what her big sister is up to).

Sleeping: Lark hit the 4 month sleep regression early and hard. Starting a week or so before I headed to California (I made a quick trip with Lark a few weeks ago to surprise my sister for her birthday), Lark started to wake up more in the night. Since I was going to be traversing time zones with her, I decided not to sweat it. In California she adapted fairly well, doing one 5-6 hour stretch, but then would be up about every 2 hours after that. And of course just as she assimilated to the new time, we headed right back to Amsterdam, where sleep continued to decline. After many bad weeks and things getting progressively worse, I started doing some gentle sleep training, which I’m happy to report has been working out quite well. Her naps are phenomenal, and while bedtime is still a little bit of a struggle some nights, she’s cut down her night-waking to once a night most nights (though, not last night! Gah…)

How we’re adjusting: Sleep has been a struggle for the past month, which tends to be hard on everyone. I contracted a particularly nasty case of strep (probably at least partially due to my lack of sleep) which made all of last week miserable. Luckily, having been through the whole sleep debacle before with Prim, I’m addressing issues earlier with Lark, which is proving to be helpful and less intense. (We did hardcore sleep training with Prim at 7 months after she had been sleeping poorly for soooo looong.)

Lifesavers: I recently purchased a sound machine for Lark, since I noticed that she was being woken up by every little noise, and of course then had trouble getting back to sleep. The sound machine has been amazing so far, and I think will be especially helpful when we eventually move Lark into Prim’s room. I’m sure they will inevitably wake each other up occasionally, but having the white noise helps muffle some of the noise at least.

Latest trick: Lark has rolled from her back to her belly, and is soooo close to rolling belly to back now. She has also figured out how to move across the floor a bit through a series of wiggles and kicks. It’s hilarious to watch her rotate across the blanket like a clock arm, ending up on the hardwood floor somewhere.

Sweetest things: Lark now takes all her naps upstairs in the crib (as opposed to the crib in our living room or in the carrier) and I have a monitor downstairs to hear when she wakes up. She sometimes wakes up crying, but often wakes up now and enjoys a little solo time in her crib, squealing and chattering to herself. Hearing her high-pitched calls over the monitor downstairs is so, so cute.

Favorite thing about this age: Lark is right in between the sort of “new baby” phase and the mobile phase. She’s clearly trying to move and grab things now (no doubt envious of her very busy big sister), but still maintains a lot of that “new-babyness” that’s so sweet. I love that more of her personality is coming out, but I have to admit that I really enjoy the fact that she isn’t too big or busy to nap on the go in the Solly wrap yet (it’s just so sweet, and such a short time that they do this!)

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Motherhood Update: Lark at 3 months

May 16, 2017

Tummy time tends to be a group activity in this house.

Sleeping: Lark continues to amaze me with her nights. She generally nurses around 7:45pm and goes down by 9pm for the night. She generally wakes up once to feed around 4 or 5am and then goes back down until she’s (inevitably) woken up by Prim prancing into our room between 7 and 8am.

How we’re adjusting: We’re feeling comfortable being a family of four these days. We’ve got a trip to Barcelona booked and are looking at a few other trips this year as well. Traveling with two kids isn’t always easy, but we’re determined to take advantage of our proximity to so many amazing European countries and are going to explore with our little ones while we’re here.

Lifesavers: One of the few things we purchased before Lark’s birth was the BabyBjorn bouncer with the toy bar. It’s been so helpful to have place to set down Lark while I’m cooking dinner or emptying the dishwasher, and she’s recently discovered that she can touch the toys on the toy bar, which is pretty fascinating (and pretty cute, too!) The best part about this bouncer is that it can fold flat super easily. I can lug it upstairs on the nights KC works late so that Lark can hang out while I bathe Prim and get her ready for bed.

New sibling: Prim has adjusted so incredibly well to being an older sister — I’m honestly so thrilled. It’s not that I didn’t expect her to love Lark, but I really thought that adapting to having a new baby around would be a bit more of an adjustment. Prim, however, has had nothing but love for little Lark since the moment we brought her home. All throughout the day she will walk up to Lark and give her a “kiss!” and “snuggle!” or even read her a story (either in her nonsense language, or with the words she remembers from the books we read all the time). She has also recently started coming up to Lark when she’s upset and saying “Ok, ok, sorry!” and patting her “just like mama does” — it’s so ridiculous and sweet!

Sweetest things: Lark has started cooing a lot, which is adorable in and of itself, but when Prim starts talking to her and she looks right at her and starts cooing back I can hardly take it. The only thing that can cure my baby fever at this point is more cowbell.

Favorite thing about this age: Lark is really starting to discover her voice, which is one of my most favorite parts of the newborn phase. Just like Prim around this age, Lark does these sweet high-pitched calls and loves having “conversations” with a big grin on her face. I have a feeling that Lark may end up being just as chatty as Prim in another year or so!

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Motherhood Update: Lark at 2 months

April 17, 2017

Sleeping: So far Lark has been a pretty amazing sleeper. Most nights she does one long stretch of at least 5 hours and generally sticks to a minimum of 3 hours between feedings after that. I don’t know how long this will last, so I’m just enjoying the sleep while I’ve got it. (And the upside to the two month vaccines was Lark sleeping 9:30pm to 7am that night — life-changing!)

How we’re adjusting: We’re all enjoying being a family of four. Lark has proven herself to be a true Dutch baby, as she loves going for rides in the bakfiets. She could be screaming bloody murder when we strap her into the carseat, but as soon as KC snaps her into the base on the bakfiets and starts pedaling, she’ll calm down immediately and either fall asleep or just sit quietly for the entire ride.

Lifesavers: It’s been interesting to see how Lark differs from Prim, as I think it’s pretty easy to approach second (and third…) babies with the same tricks that worked on your first kid. Lark does not nurse to sleep, except in the middle of the night (which is both a blessing and a curse), and still cannot stand to be swaddled. She’s also completely apathetic about her pacifier, but loves white noise (perhaps because she spent nine months in my belly listening to a very loud toddler??) The Sound Sleeper app has been a lifesaver with both kids, but especially with Lark. When I know she’s tired but fighting sleep, the only thing that will make her stop flailing and finally calm down is the vacuum sound from the app. (Prim was a fan of the hair dryer sound when she was about Lark’s age. It was a godsend when she was wailing in the carseat while we were stuck in that awesome Bay Area traffic!)

New sibling: Prim still loves her sister (photo evidence above, which is Prim telling Lark stories in her own little language) and her acting out for attention has actually been pretty minimal; which is sort of surprising, given that she’s just weeks away from her second birthday and the “terrible twos.” This is not to say that the adjustment hasn’t been challenging at times. Prim definitely has her moments where she is “very two.” So far my approach to her acting out has been to talk to Prim a lot about the transition (which is basically what I do with everything for Prim… ha!) I make sure to praise her good behavior and work hard to give her one-on-one attention each day. When she starts acting up I try to name how she’s feeling (“It seems like you want some attention from Mama. I know it can be hard when Lark needs so much of my time, but [screaming/banging/whatever] is not ok.”) and give her some attention after a small break (since I don’t want her to think acting out = positive attention). When I sit with her at night before she goes to bed I make it a point to tell her how proud we are of her, what a good sister she is, and how much we love her.

Sweetest things: Lark has started smiling recently and is on the verge of laughing. It’s amazing to see how much she’s changed in just a few short weeks, going from a sleepy newborn to being more and more aware of her surroundings each day. It’s especially adorable when Lark sees Prim’s face and breaks out into a huge, gummy grin and immediately starts cooing at her. It’s as if she already knows that she’s got a best friend and partner in crime for life (these girls are so lucky!)

Favorite thing about this age: Lark’s days and nights are getting a little more predictable, but she still isn’t on a hard and fast schedule. I love feeling a little more confident managing her days while still having the flexibility to go out with her anytime of day, since she can still sleep anytime, anywhere (babies — they’re so portable at this age!)